Here are just a few parenting resources that might be helpful to you as you lead your kids:
Student Leadership University 101-401
Authentic Maturity by Tim Elmore
Generation IY by Tim Elmore
Tim Emore Blog
Right of Passage Parenting by Walker Moor
Checkpoints - A Tactical Guide to Manhood
Kid CEO by Ed Young Jr
Get them involved in the Local Church through weekly programs and Small Groups.
Center for Parent youth understanding
Circle Maker by Mark Batterson
Critical Issues - Absolute Answers
Chasing Elephants -
There are so many other resources that are very very good. These are just a few that will allow you to evaluate your kid, how they are growing up, how to talk to them about the tough issues and how to get them ready so they don't return home after college like more are doing today.